"A Child Called It," has to be the saddest book I have ever read, every page throwing more tears at me, word by word provoking a reaction inside of me, sorrow, anger, disbelief. This book is the beginning of a Compelling biography, by David Pelzer. The concluding parts to his biography cans be found in the books: The Lost Boy and A Man Called Dave. I have started to read The Lost Boy and will from be sure to follow with the conclusion, as I want to read the story of Such a brave little boy, so here is my account of That little, helpless boy Called Dave. The biography starts with an example of how Dave's mother Would treat uterus. It's the beginning of what proves to be one of the escape from the terrible Torture he suffers. This day, 5 Match 1973, starts as any other for Dave, going about the house being the slave, chores for his mother in return for a scrap of food and no beating. This is no way to treat a child both you and I will of agree, though this Happened and I was Moved. Pls improved this day the school nurse finally Had Enough couldn't bear to look at Dave any more, having worn the Same clothes for what seemed Had an Eternity. The school authorities Had been informed, Dave was Somewhat naïve, he thought the world was caving in on uterus yet again and That he was going to jail for being a 'Bad Boy' as he was always Referred to by Mother. That was a Triumphant day, Dave was extremely fortunate, he escaped after his ordeals, allowed to rebuild his life, though at the time his mother what was May Concern Would think. Child abuse earnest Often leave a child scarred, naturally. One Who is under the constant wrap of Their Parents, subject to intense alcohol abuse have every right to fear for Their life and to think the worst. The constant threats Mother Gave Dave about alerting the authorities uterus Had never even contemplating it, so he was scared Pls They contacted uterus and wanted to alert the mother That They were the resource persons taking away uterus. Dave feared for his life. At this point of the book, I thought We Had reached a conclusion as little Dave was free, free from his Mother and Had the right to live. Though, Dave Pelzer wanted to re-collect the Torture in the which he was put through. Dave Pelzer wanted to paint a picture in our mind of his family, his 'perfect' family before alcohol was consumed as readily as water. A whole chapter is dedicated to the wonderful acts of mother, how she Used to be so nice and Respected in society. These were the resource persons the 'good times' and a memory Dave is keen to retain. I felt warmth in this chapter, though reading on later made me feel totally anger, of how a woman as charming as made out, Could turn to an evil, nasty bitch! The remainder of this book graphically describes the acts Dave Had to carry out. I can not begin to think how he felt, or how other children feel like Dave. Child abuse causes one death a week in the United Kingdom and so what WE DO cans, look out for our children and Their friends and make sure We Are not 'mother' ourselves. So I stated before That the abuse for Dave really started Pls his mum developed an alcohol addiction. This is a problem in it's self and if it Had been addressed then the possibility of this awful nightmare, may never have Happened. I know this May be an Unfair comment and in the end it Went out of control, but I can not help contemplate of how it Could have been prevented with a little more awareness to her problems initially, although I Also think she was Mentally ill . So your child is bad. Not as bad as any other, not worse Than any Brother or what you yourself were the resource persons at That Age. However, you Decide he has to be punished, "Deal with the boy," exclaimed the mother always! It is surreal to think of what he was put through, as if beating your child was not bad Enough, that you Had to find more Ways to disharmon Them, to play with Their emotions. Could you do so what, dislocate shoulder Their Perhaps, I know let's 'accidentally' stab Them. I can not feed my child, They do not deserve it do They? I mean WHO would be nice to a child WHO goes into innocent children's' lunch-boxes and removes contents in order to satisfy Their stomach. Who? So as your child returns home from school too make sure you Decide They have not been eating, not scraping through any bins or the likes. How do you do that then? Well, make your child Vomit, stick his fingers right down his throat. Oh so he has eaten something today, hotdogs? What will of you do, he cannot get away with that, be mean, be witty, "So you are hungry, 'and make' the boy 'eat the contents of his Vomit, as he is so desperate to eat. Good old boy, at this rate then one day you May be more of an It, now though, you are my child, Called IT!
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Trilogi Dave Pelzer
A Child Called It - buku yg pertama dari rangkaian trilogi, menggambarkan perkembangan penggunaan bahasa dari sudut pandang seorang anak kecil. Irama bicara dan kosakatanya mencerminkan usia serta pengetahuan anak tersebut pada masa itu. Buku ini ditulis berdasarkan kehidupan si anak pada umur 4-12 tahun.
The Lost Boy - buku kedua dari tilogi, kisah nyata hidup Dave Pelzer sebagai remaja yang disajikan dalam buku ini menjawab banyak pertanyaan dan rasa penasaran yg muncul setelah membaca buku yg pertama, ditulis berdasarkan kehidupan si anak ketika berumur 12-18 tahun.
A Man Named Dave - buku terakhir dari trilogi kehidupan Dave Pelzer, buku ini berisi kisah tentang keberhasilan dan kekuatan memaafkan dan jg merupakan kesimpulan yg meneguhkan hati setelah membaca 2 seri sebelumnya, kisah ini ditulis berdasarkan kehidupan Dave setelah berumur 18 tahun ke atas...
The Lost Boy - buku kedua dari tilogi, kisah nyata hidup Dave Pelzer sebagai remaja yang disajikan dalam buku ini menjawab banyak pertanyaan dan rasa penasaran yg muncul setelah membaca buku yg pertama, ditulis berdasarkan kehidupan si anak ketika berumur 12-18 tahun.
A Man Named Dave - buku terakhir dari trilogi kehidupan Dave Pelzer, buku ini berisi kisah tentang keberhasilan dan kekuatan memaafkan dan jg merupakan kesimpulan yg meneguhkan hati setelah membaca 2 seri sebelumnya, kisah ini ditulis berdasarkan kehidupan Dave setelah berumur 18 tahun ke atas...
A Child Called "It"
A Child Called "It ": Keberanian Satu Anak Bertahan Hidup adalah accountotobiografi Dave Pelzer's dugaan penyalahgunaan sebagai seorang anakoleh ibu beralkohol, Catherine Roerva. Ini diterbitkan pada tanggal 1 September 1995.
Penggabungan masa kecil tidak hanya penganiayaan berat oleh ibunya,namun sikap apatis jelas untuk penderitaannya oleh ayahnya, Pelzermenderita salah satu kasus yang paling parah didokumentasikan kekerasan terhadap anak dalam sejarah California.

Penggabungan masa kecil tidak hanya penganiayaan berat oleh ibunya,namun sikap apatis jelas untuk penderitaannya oleh ayahnya, Pelzermenderita salah satu kasus yang paling parah didokumentasikan kekerasan terhadap anak dalam sejarah California.
Plot
The book starts with a pathetically normal day washing the dishes. If Dave does not finish the dishes he will not be fed. He takes his hand out of the dish water and is slapped hard against the counter top when his mother catches him. He finishes the dishes and as his reward he is left to eat his brother's left overs from breakfast. He was late for school, like normal, and Dave would run to school in order to make sure that he had time to steal food from fellow children's lunch boxes. His mother drove him to school that day (normally she wouldn't have) and he had no time to steal food.
He would steal food from the kids' lunch boxes and gobble down whatever he could in just a short amount of time, just because he was rarely fed. When the children started to notice that some of their food was missing, Dave was caught and the teachers called his mother, not knowing the effect that would have. At this point he began to be punished severely, made to do extra chores, and was banned from family activities. His mother would make him vomit at the end of the school day to make sure he hadn't stolen. If there was food in his vomit, he was then made to eat it up.
The frequency of the beatings increased and they now occurred when his father was present. That summer he was excluded in a family vacation. At first Dave's father tried to stop the abuse but as time went on felt unable to intervene. His mother would never exclude his other siblings, who were treated well and never punished as severely as Dave.
The next year abuse intensified and he was no longer allowed to eat meals with the family. Dave was in charge of all the chores in the house while his siblings had few responsibilities. That Christmas, Dave's mother showed him a letter she claimed that came from North Pole. It stated that Dave was a "bad boy" and would get no toys for Christmas. A few months later, his mother attempted to burn Dave on a stove. Abuse increased even more after that.
By the time he was in second grade, his mother began to make him go without food for extended periods of time. David was forced to sleep in the basement in a army cot with no blankets. He got an average of half a meal a day. When David was 10, she stabbed him in the stomach and did not take him to the hospital. The wound eventually became infected and he was forced to squeeze pus out of it himself. By this point he was no longer considered part of the family and lived in the basement; he was denied basic contact, play, and food. His mother stated that she did not want Dave to interact with "her family." At this point his mother had become horrifyingly psychotic and in her eyes, evil.
Over time the depth of the abuse worsened. David claimed he was forced to sit in the "prisoner of war" position (head bent backwards facing the sky, sitting on his hands). His mother stopped using his name and began referring to him first as "The Boy" and finally "It". The punishments are reported to have evolved into "sick games" in which she made her son suffer. His little brother becomes his mother's 'Little Nazi', who, brainwashed by the woman, enjoys watching Dave suffer.
Incidents cited in the book include forcing ammonia down his throat, sitting in a sealed bathroom while inhaling the fumes from a bucket of ammonia mixed with bleach (Gas Chamber), inducing vomiting followed by forced ingestion, smashing his face against a mirror while forcing him to say "I'm a bad boy", lying in the bathtub naked with freezing water for hours, then made him sit in the shade while sunlight was just out of reach, rubbing his face in his baby brother's soiled diaper, trying to make him eat his youngest brother's feces, as well as starvation and general malnutrition, and accidentally stabbing him with a knife when he didn't meet the time limit to do the dishes. Dave's mother also attempted to force him to lie on a gas stove, saying, "Now sit on the stove so I can watch you burn and die." Although she only held his arm over the flame.
In each of the sequels, the author reveals more forms of torture he did not describe in this book (e.g., his mother hitting his neck with a broom handle, causing his neck to swell so that he was unable to breathe). Overall, Dave Pelzer was brutally beaten by his mother Catherine Pelzer.
Controversy
Pelzer's younger brother, Stephen Pelzer, is quoted as saying, "David wasn't at all ostracized from the family; he was very close to me and Richard. We were the Three Musketeers. David would make up lies, to receive some attention. But David had to be the center of attention. He was a hyper, over happy spoiled brat." Adding to the controversy, "his grandmother, Ruth Cole (born in 1910) remembers him as a 'disruptive kid', only interested in Adrian Fortiz, with big ideas of imagination and comfort.'"
Supporting Pelzer's story is schoolteacher Athena Konstan of Salt Lake City, who wrote, "In my 31 years of teaching, David Pelzer was the most severely abused child I have ever known." His brother Richard Pelzer, who wrote the book A Brother's Journey, argues that there was abuse in the family but disputes many of David's claims and questions his ethics and marketing tactics.
Pelzer's website claims the book was nominated for the Pulitzer Prize; however, according to a recent Guardian profile, it was merely submitted to the prize board, a process open to any work of literature. It can therefore be considered a submission but not a nominee.
Review buku A Child Called "It"

Buku yang berjudul A Child Called 'It' ini menceritakan bagaimana tragisnya perjuangan hidup seorang anak. David J. Pelzer, penulis buku ini sekaligus tokoh anak yang diceritakan didalamnya, disiksa oleh ibu kandungnya sendiri. Diceritakan dari sudut pandang penulis sebagai anak lelaki kecil yang dibuat lapar, ditikam, kepalanya diantukkan ke cermin, dipaksa makan isi popok adik kandungnya dan sesendok makan penuh ammonia, dan dibakar di atas kompor gas oleh ibu yang maniak dan alkoholik. Terkadang ibunya mengatakan ia telah melanggar beberapa aturan--jangan berjalan di rumput sekolah!-- tetapi kebanyakan murni sadisme. Yang tidak dapat dipahami, ayahnya tidak melindunginya; hanya seorang guru yang perhatian yang menyelamatkan David.
ini kutipan saat David dipaksa makan isi popok adik kandungnya:
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Ayah mencoba membuat suasana liburan itu lebih
menyenangkan dengan mengajak kami bertiga ke tempat
bermain prosotan yang baru di situ. Russell, yang ketika
itu baru belajar berjalan, tinggal di cabin bersama Ibu.
Pada suatu hari, ketika Ron, Stan, dan aku sedang bermain
di cabin tetangga, Ibu datang ke halaman depan cabin
tetangga itu, lalu berteriak memanggil kami untuk segera
kembali ke cabin kami. Begitu sampai di cabin kami, aku
dimarahi Ibu karena, katanya, suaraku berisik sekali ketika
bermain. Sebagai hukuman, aku tidak diizinkan ikut
bersama Ayah dan kedua saudara laki-lakiku bermain di
tempat prosotan. Aku duduk di sebuah kursi di pojok
dalam cabin. Aku gemetar karena takut, dan dalam hati
aku berharap terjadi sesuatu yang membuat Ayah dan
kedua saudara laki-lakiku tidak jadi pergi ke mana-mana.
Aku tahu Ibu diam-diam punya suatu rencana. Begitu Ayah
dan kedua saudaraku berangkat bermain, Ibu
mengeluarkan sebuah popok yang sudah kotor oleh
kotoran serta air kencing Russell. Ibu mengusapkan popok
kotor itu ke wajahku. Aku ber-usaha tetap duduk diam,
sebab aku tahu kalau aku bergerak, aku akan mendapat
perlakuan yang lebih buruk lagi. Wajahku tetap
kutundukkan. Aku tidak bisa melihat Ibu yang berdiri di
depanku, tetapi aku bisa mendengar desah napasnya yang
berat.
Setelah memperlakukan aku seperti itu--yang bagiku
rasanya lama sekali--Ibu berlutut di sebelah kursi
tempatku duduk, lalu dengan suara pelan ia berkata,
"Makan ini".
Aku terkejut. Kutegakkan kepalaku, tapi tak kupandang
mata Ibuku. "Tidak mau!" kataku dalam hati. Seperti
semua kejadian sebelumnya, menolak perintah Ibu berarti
kesalahan besar. Ibu menempelengi aku. Dengan erat
kupegang kursi tempatku duduk, berusaha untuk tidak
jatuh, sebab bila aku jatuh aku takut Ibu akan
menginjakku.
"Kubilang makan ini!"' bentaknya dengan suara tertahan.
Taktik kuubah: aku mulai menangis. "Bikin dia
mengendur", pikirku. Aku mulai menghitung dalam hati,
mencoba berkonsentrasi. Waktu adalah satu-satunya
kawanku. Tangisanku ditanggapi Ibu dengan pukulan-
pukulannya ke wajahku, dan ia baru berhenti memukulku
saat ia mendengar Russell menangis.
Aku merasa senang meskipun wajahku berlepotan kotoran.
Kupikir, aku bisa menang. Kubersihkan kotoran di wajahku
dengan tangan, lalu mengibaskannya sehingga berceceran
di lantai kayu. Kudengar Ibu bernyanyi lembut untuk
menenangkan Russell, dan aku membayangkan adikku itu
ditimang-timang dalam pelukan Ibu. Aku berdoa supaya
adikku itu tidak tertidur lagi. Sebentar kemudian nasib
baikku lenyap.
Masih dengan wajah tersenyum, Ibu kembali menghampiri
lawannya yang sudah kalah. Ia mencekal kerah belakang
bajuku, lalu menyeretku ke dapur. Di atas meja dapur
kulihat satu lagi popok yang penuh kotoran. Baunya
membuat perutku mual. "Nah, sekarang kau harus
memakannya!" kata Ibu. Pada saat itu sorot mata Ibu
sama dengan sorot matanya dulu ketika ia mau
membakarku di atas kompor gas di rumah. Tanpa
menggerakkan kepala, mataku mencari-cari jam dinding
sebab setahuku ada jam di dinding dapur itu. Tak berapa
lama, aku tahu letak jam dinding itu. Tanpa jam itu, aku
merasa tak berdaya. Aku tahu bahwa aku harus
memusatkan perhatianku pada sesuatu agar
bagaimanapun juga aku bisa menguasai situasi. Sebelum
mataku menemukan jam dinding itu, tangan Ibu
mencengkeram tengkukku.
Sekali lagi ia berkata, "Makan ini!" Kutahan napasku. Bau
sekali kotoran itu. Aku mencoba memusatkan perhatianku
ke bagian atas popok yang ada di hadapanku. Rasanya
lama sekali waktu berlalu. Ibu pasti bisa menebak
rencanaku. Ibu menekan tengkukku sehingga wajahku
jatuh di atas popok kotor itu. Ibu menggesek-gesekkan
kepalaku ke kiri ke kanan di atas popok kotor itu.
...
...
ini kutipan saat David dipaksa makan isi popok adik kandungnya:
...
...
Ayah mencoba membuat suasana liburan itu lebih
menyenangkan dengan mengajak kami bertiga ke tempat
bermain prosotan yang baru di situ. Russell, yang ketika
itu baru belajar berjalan, tinggal di cabin bersama Ibu.
Pada suatu hari, ketika Ron, Stan, dan aku sedang bermain
di cabin tetangga, Ibu datang ke halaman depan cabin
tetangga itu, lalu berteriak memanggil kami untuk segera
kembali ke cabin kami. Begitu sampai di cabin kami, aku
dimarahi Ibu karena, katanya, suaraku berisik sekali ketika
bermain. Sebagai hukuman, aku tidak diizinkan ikut
bersama Ayah dan kedua saudara laki-lakiku bermain di
tempat prosotan. Aku duduk di sebuah kursi di pojok
dalam cabin. Aku gemetar karena takut, dan dalam hati
aku berharap terjadi sesuatu yang membuat Ayah dan
kedua saudara laki-lakiku tidak jadi pergi ke mana-mana.
Aku tahu Ibu diam-diam punya suatu rencana. Begitu Ayah
dan kedua saudaraku berangkat bermain, Ibu
mengeluarkan sebuah popok yang sudah kotor oleh
kotoran serta air kencing Russell. Ibu mengusapkan popok
kotor itu ke wajahku. Aku ber-usaha tetap duduk diam,
sebab aku tahu kalau aku bergerak, aku akan mendapat
perlakuan yang lebih buruk lagi. Wajahku tetap
kutundukkan. Aku tidak bisa melihat Ibu yang berdiri di
depanku, tetapi aku bisa mendengar desah napasnya yang
berat.
Setelah memperlakukan aku seperti itu--yang bagiku
rasanya lama sekali--Ibu berlutut di sebelah kursi
tempatku duduk, lalu dengan suara pelan ia berkata,
"Makan ini".
Aku terkejut. Kutegakkan kepalaku, tapi tak kupandang
mata Ibuku. "Tidak mau!" kataku dalam hati. Seperti
semua kejadian sebelumnya, menolak perintah Ibu berarti
kesalahan besar. Ibu menempelengi aku. Dengan erat
kupegang kursi tempatku duduk, berusaha untuk tidak
jatuh, sebab bila aku jatuh aku takut Ibu akan
menginjakku.
"Kubilang makan ini!"' bentaknya dengan suara tertahan.
Taktik kuubah: aku mulai menangis. "Bikin dia
mengendur", pikirku. Aku mulai menghitung dalam hati,
mencoba berkonsentrasi. Waktu adalah satu-satunya
kawanku. Tangisanku ditanggapi Ibu dengan pukulan-
pukulannya ke wajahku, dan ia baru berhenti memukulku
saat ia mendengar Russell menangis.
Aku merasa senang meskipun wajahku berlepotan kotoran.
Kupikir, aku bisa menang. Kubersihkan kotoran di wajahku
dengan tangan, lalu mengibaskannya sehingga berceceran
di lantai kayu. Kudengar Ibu bernyanyi lembut untuk
menenangkan Russell, dan aku membayangkan adikku itu
ditimang-timang dalam pelukan Ibu. Aku berdoa supaya
adikku itu tidak tertidur lagi. Sebentar kemudian nasib
baikku lenyap.
Masih dengan wajah tersenyum, Ibu kembali menghampiri
lawannya yang sudah kalah. Ia mencekal kerah belakang
bajuku, lalu menyeretku ke dapur. Di atas meja dapur
kulihat satu lagi popok yang penuh kotoran. Baunya
membuat perutku mual. "Nah, sekarang kau harus
memakannya!" kata Ibu. Pada saat itu sorot mata Ibu
sama dengan sorot matanya dulu ketika ia mau
membakarku di atas kompor gas di rumah. Tanpa
menggerakkan kepala, mataku mencari-cari jam dinding
sebab setahuku ada jam di dinding dapur itu. Tak berapa
lama, aku tahu letak jam dinding itu. Tanpa jam itu, aku
merasa tak berdaya. Aku tahu bahwa aku harus
memusatkan perhatianku pada sesuatu agar
bagaimanapun juga aku bisa menguasai situasi. Sebelum
mataku menemukan jam dinding itu, tangan Ibu
mencengkeram tengkukku.
Sekali lagi ia berkata, "Makan ini!" Kutahan napasku. Bau
sekali kotoran itu. Aku mencoba memusatkan perhatianku
ke bagian atas popok yang ada di hadapanku. Rasanya
lama sekali waktu berlalu. Ibu pasti bisa menebak
rencanaku. Ibu menekan tengkukku sehingga wajahku
jatuh di atas popok kotor itu. Ibu menggesek-gesekkan
kepalaku ke kiri ke kanan di atas popok kotor itu.
...
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Pada awalnya Dave adalah seorang anak yang hidup bahagia bersama ayah, ibu,dan dua kakaknya. Ayahnya adalah seorang petugas pemadam kebakaran. Ibunya adalah seorang pengurus rumah yang baik, pandai memasak dan menata ruangan, sering mengajak ketiga anaknya berjalan-jalan, dan sering mengajari Dave akan berbagai hal.
Tapi semua berubah ketika entah mengapa tiba-tiba ibunya menjadi pecandu alkohol dan sering menyiksanya. Dave dipukul, tidak diberi makan atau baju yang layak, dan harus tidur di garasi. Ia sering dipaksa meminum amonia, sabun, atau chlorox. Ia terpaksa pergi ke sekolah dengan baju yang sama setiap hari sehingga ia dijauhi teman-temannya. Ia harus berlari ke sekolah, sementara dua kakaknya diantar ibunya dengan mobil. Ia disuruh mengerjakan berbagai pekerjaan rumah tangga. Jika ia tidak berhasil menyelesaikan tugas tepat waktu, ia akan dihukum dan tidak diberi makan.Karena kelaparan,Dave sering mencuri bekal makanan milik teman-temannya,sehingga ia mendapat lebih banyak hukuman dari ibunya. Ia diharuskan memakan kembali makanan yang telah dimuntahkannya.
Anehnya hanya ia yang mendapat siksaan,sementara dua kakaknya tetap diperlakukan seperti biasa. Yang lebih mengherankan adalah sikap ayah dan dua kakaknya yang berpura-pura tidak melihat Dave disiksa. Bahkan ayahnya tidak berani menolong saat secara tidak sengaja Dave ditikam oleh ibunya. Meskipun begitu, saat ibunya tidak ada,ayahnya selalu menunjukkan kasih sayangnya sebagai ayah dan selalu berjanji akan menyelamatkannya, walaupun tindakan ayahnya tersebut tidak banyak membantu karena ayahnya jarang pulang ke rumah. Nyatanya ayahnya malah pergi meninggalkan rumah tanpa membawa Dave.
Bagaimana nasib Dave selanjutnya ?
Dapatkah ia selamat dari siksaan ibunya?
Simaklah liku-liku perjuangannya dalam bertahan hidup di tengah dahsyatnya siksaan di buku ini. Dalam otobiografinya ini, Dave Pelzer bercerita tentang masa kecilnya yang kelam dan penuh penderitaan. Di saat anak-anak seusianya bermain dan memusingkan pelajaran di sekolah, Dave hanya memikirkan rencana mendapat makanan dan bagaimana ia bertahan dari siksaan ibunya selanjutnya. Buku ini sangat menguras air mata dan memancing rasa miris betapa seorang ibu tega menyiksa darah dagingnya sendiri. Anda akan merasakan ketegangan saat menyimak kisah kelam Dave, A Child Called 'It'.
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